Thursday, December 22, 2011

November 23 - 25 Thanksgiving in Wildwood

Oh, Wildwood days.  When I was in college,  I spent a summer in Wildwood trying to earn a buck.  Unfortunately, it was the summer of the gas crisis and no one went to the beach.  I was a terrible waitress and there were no jobs anyway.  So I ended up getting a job as a maid in an ocean front hotel.  I needed some more funds so I got a job working as a dishwasher.  I actually liked that job.  It was mindless work.  It was an exciting summer of beer drinking and making beds and washing dishes.  I lived in a one bedroom apartment with my college roommate Ria.  We actually shared a bed because we had no choice.  We were poor.  (I hope I did not snore then.)

My sister Michele and her husband John own a house there and we visited for Thanksgiving.  The place was empty of course since it is not season.  I did not remember much of it.  It certainly does not look anything like it did when I lived there.

We started out driving on Tuesday night.  You figure that would be safe--two days before Thanksgiving.  Not.  The traffic was so bad it took us two hours to get about 20 miles up the road.  We gave up.  the next day we left around noon and headed for the Lewes, Delaware to Cape May Ferry.  The weather was not good.  Skies were overcast and the wind was whipping.  The ferry was really rolling.  Matt is not the best sailor so we sat in the car where you could not feel it so much.


On Thanksgiving, we went for a walk on the beach in Cape May to look for sea glass and shells and to just absorb some sun.  It was a nice but windy day.


for dinner we had  Cornish hens and then played Scattergories.


The next day we shopped in Cape May in the morning and then got back on the ferry for the ride home.  Now that's better--good weather and sunshine.



















On the way home, we stopped for lunch at Dogfish Head Brewery in Rehobeth Beach.  Love the Ancient beers.

Wednesday, December 14, 2011

November 21 - First Prize

I won first prize in the Share Our Strength Cooking Contest.  Share Our Strength is an organization started by chefs to help low income families with food issues such as hunger and affordability.  I participate in the Cooking Matters classes offered by the Capitol Area Food Bank.  The class offers nutrition and healthy cooking lessons with an emphasis on budget and affordability to those in need.  I have taught three courses (about 18 classes) as the chef.  I have a great time doing it since healthy cooking is my purpose in life.  The adults I teach are generally African American and I am always looking for ways to lighten up and make the food they like healthier.

For my last class I developed a recipe for Hoppin John.  I submitted the recipe to the Soul Food category contest and it won.  See   the blog post.  I was really honored since these classes are usually taught by chefs.  I talked my way in several years ago even though I was not a chef in the classic sense.   Hey, I'm a cook and I know something about nutrition.  That should count for something.  It did and here I am today.  The winner of the Soul Food recipe contest.  You have to admit that is pretty hilarious.  But for those who know how much I love food, totally believable.  Oprah, here I come!  Darn, she doesn't have a tv show anymore.

November 19 - Dinner in the Old Neighborhood

We had dinner with Jeff and Sharon, Elaine and Steve, in our old neighborhood.  It was great to see everyone.  We parked in front of our old house and I am sure when people saw out car they were wondering.  There was the house in all of its glory.  But, of course, lacking the Schmidt aura.  And by that I mean, the doodads and froofrahs that we had all over the yard.

We stayed out way too late, drank too much wine but we all had a great time talking.

November 15 - Massage and Facial

I promised myself when this was all over I would go out and get pampered.  Well, it may never be over so no time like the present.  So I spent the afternoon getting a facial and a massage.  It was great.  I just wish I had it in me to schedule this kind of thing on a regular basis.  Gosh knows my neck appreciated it.

November - In general House Hunting

 I do believe we have seen every house for sale in Montgomery County this month. I have holes in  my blog, my own life diary, days unaccounted for and those black holes are filled with house hunting.  That is all we do with our spare time and it is really, really boring. I want my life back.

November 12 - Getting Old

Remember back in the old days when you  could go out to a concert, drink beer, have fun, dance, jump around and get up the next day and do it all  over again?   Yeah, I feel like I've been hit by a bus. My neck is aching, my ears are ringing. Ouch! Oh to be young again.

November 11 - Foo Fighters

What does every girl want for her birthday?  Wrong!

Tickets to the Foo Fighters!  Oh Lord.  Three hours of head banging and air guitar playing.  My poor neck.  My poor ears.  But Dave Grohl, I love you man!  You are the best showman around these days.  I am old enough to remember when Bruce Springsteen impressed everyone with a two hour show of non-stop rock. Well, honey, you got him beat by an hour and while you may not have horns, but you got guitars and you rock.  You made this old lady very happy.

Saturday, December 10, 2011

November 10 - Capital Area Food Fight

Every year we try to attend the Capitol Area Food Fight, a fund raiser for the DC Central Kitchen organized byJose Andres and hosted by Anthony Bourdain. This is our one charitable event of the year. It's a lot of fun because restaurants from all over the city, and hand out samples of their food.  We get to try everything.   As foodies this is much appreciated.   We always discover someone new. This year it was a gelato store from Bethesda, dolcezza.  they make artisinal gelatto.  They were giving out samples of salted caramel gelato. It was fabulous!   Salt, sugar, caramel, and it was creamy and cold.  What is not to love?  Here we are enjoying it.  Yummy!  (Does Matt look like he is having a great ime or what?)



Monday, December 05, 2011

November 2 to 5 - Colonial Williamsburg



November 2.  Needing a much needed break from reality, we drove to Williamsburg to immerse ourselves in Colonial days.  We stayed at the Williamsburg Lodge, which is within the historic area so we could walk everywhere.  The place struck me as a bit stuffy.  It all seemed so very fox hunt and country clubish.

Matt kept obsessing about a beer called Old Stitch that they serve at Chownings Tavern.  So on the first night, we ate there.  We had a bit of Welsh Rarebit, with the most awesome cheddar cheese and pickled water melon rind with our fried chicken.  What a pairing!  And we had the Old Stitch.  Now I know why he was obsessing.  Even though it was dark, this has to have been the most drinkable, refreshing beer I have ever tasted.  Oh, Old Stitch how we love you.  Alas, there was no way to buy it to take home.  We tried.  We searched, we asked.  You can only drink it on tap at Chownings.  Honestly, it is worth the trip.

November 3.  The next day we immersed ourselves in the Colony of Williamsburg.  First, we went to see Thomas Jefferson, the Republican.  The audience wanted an answer--was not Jefferson against Federalism?  Did he not want to stick with the Articles of Confederation, which had stronger states rights?  Yes.  And so everyone in the audience got the clarification.

 I will explain it here and now so listen up.  Sorry but Federalism does NOT mean states rights.  In fact, it is just the contrary.  Federalism, as championed by Alexander Hamilton, Adams, John Jay, Washington and others means a strong central government with weaker states.  The experiment in strong states rights was the Articles of Confederation and that did not work.  On some weird Orwellian twist the "Federalist" Society, that group of conservatives who favor states rights, adopted that name in honor of James Madison.  Madison was a staunch Federalist who drafted the Constitution. But by the time he became President he had been turned by Jefferson into a devout Republican.  Let us also be clear as to what we mean here because this gets confused too.  Over time the parties swapped names and core beliefs.  The Democrats used to be the state's rights group--Andrew Jackson was the typical Democrat;  Southern by birth and a believer in small government not interfering with the State's rights to most notably have slaves.  Abraham Lincoln, the father of the Republican Party was a strong federalist who believed that only a strong central government could keep the country together.  He believed in national investment in infrastructure and a strong central bank.  That is a completely Hamiltonian view.  Democrats were the party of the South until this century when President Johnson began advocating for civil rights.  All of those Dixiecrats ran to the Republican Party, took it over, and here we are.

But I digress.  Upon repeated questioning Jefferson agreed with all that I outlined above.  Federalism is a strong central government, a national bank, a core control of commerce and land out West.


Once we got that problem solved, we headed to the coffee shop for sustenance until we could participate in the living theater that is The Revolution, a play.  Reenactors give us scenes of what led to the Revolution as it occurred in Williamsburg.  The stamp tax, lack of representation, and ultimately, the failure of the British to listen to the colonies.  Matt refused to be drafted into the Colonial army.



The Tax Collector was nearly tarred and feathered in vigilante justice (here is the hanging post) but cooler heads prevailed.




The finale was the reading of the Declaration and the firing of muskets and cannons.  I love a good cannon firing.


That evening we ate at the Williamsburg Inn.  If the Williamsburg Lodge was stuffy, this was a time warp back to the 50's.  The place was virtually empty.  It was us and three older couples.  Waiters in tuxedos stiffly bowed to us as we were seated.  We whispered to each other because if we spoke in a normal voice, everyone was going to hear us.  We are loud people and I have a big laugh, which I had to suppress.   An elderly gentleman entertained us on the piano and by that I mean he helped us to not fall asleep from boredom. We were getting close to slumping over our plates, so I went up and asked him to play My Blue Heaven.  Well, that got the place jumping.  A couple from another table took to the deserted dance floor for a swing dance and  we joined them because well, there was no other option.  And then the party was over.  The music slowed back down and we all got bored again.  The food was good, not great.  But it made us realize how used we have become to fine restaurants that have a lighter party atmosphere.  A place where the food is excellent  but you don't feel like you have starch in your shorts.  That was not the Williamsburg Inn.


November 4.  The Wigmaker.  Today we spent our time focusing on the tours of the buildings.  By far the wig maker was our favorite stop although the gaol was not far behind.  Actually, it was all good.  The re-enactors were really very good and knew their stuff.  We learned a lot.  Ladies, I am not sure if you knew this but the rich women shaved their heads and wore wigs.  I always knew they wore wigs but I had no idea they had bald heads underneath them   Only the poorer women had hair.  The wigs were fashioned from the virgin hair of Northern Europeans.  Young girls grew their hair, tending to it carefully and then at the right age, they sold it to a trader for gold jewelry or something useful.   (that is a block head)

At the gaol we learned all about the lack of police in America.  There were no police until the 1850s.  Until then the local people took care of justice.  There was one jail and if you committed a serious crime you were transported to the court and held in the jail until the trial.  There was no option for prison.  Punishment was meted out, death or leniency and that was it.

We went to the tavern and had some chocolate and talked about trade with the locals.  It was an extremely brisk and windy day so it was appreciated.  That evening we did the ghost tour, hearing stories about modern ghosts that are said to haunt the buildings.  Dinner was at the Blue Talon, a French bistro in Williamsburg proper, next to William & Mary.  We shared salt cod dip with truffle oil and frogs legs.  I had pigs feet that were to die for.  Roasted and then mixed with a sauce, it was like a very rich barbecue. It was delicious.  Matt had a French sausage platter.  We left there pretty stuffed.

But we found time and space in our bellies to go back to Chownings for more Old Stitch.  After 9 they have gambols where everyone gets to play games, sing songs and generally drink beer just like they did in the old Colonial taverns.  We had played a game and chatted with our table mates, and drank as much Old Stitch as we could after that big meal.

November 5.  Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel.  It was time to leave Williamsburg.  Our first stop, Williamsburg Alewerks to see if we could buy Old Stitch.  Sorry, no luck.  We bought some other beer including a growler of their lighter ale.


Then we headed off for the Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel.  I have never been across it and we were so close.  The Bay Bridge Tunnel connects Norfolk  with the southern tip of Virginia and Maryland across the Chesapeake Bay.  Is is quite an engineering feet, a series of bridges and tunnels crossing thirteen miles across the Bay.  Normally, you would drive through Southern Maryland to get back to DC but I determined that it was actually faster to cross the bride tunnel, then turn around and go back to Norfolk to catch 95 home.



There are a series of "islands" along the way, that hold the tunnel entrances and exits.  The purpose of the tunnels is to allow ship traffic to pass freely through two deep water channels without having to go under a bridge.  Instead we go under the water.  We stopped at the island to look around.  The wind felt like it was hurricane force.  We could barely walk and we certainly could not get out the pier.  Even with that weather, there were guys fishing.  I truly thought they were idiotic.  It was cold and the wind was almost unbearable.  After some picture taking, we hopped into the restaurant/gift shop that also occupies the island.  No surprise that there was not much going on there.


(Container ship going through the deep waster channel and over a tunnel.)


We continued on our journey across, reached the other side, turned around and headed home.


November 1 - Contract Cancelled

Okay folks.  Here is the big news.  The builder told us that the house would most likely not be ready until May of 2012.  While they had initially promised the house would be ready in December, the date kept slipping. We had some hope because in August they announced they had a road built into the development.  Yeah, funny story.  They did not build the entire road system, and by that I mean two roads.  They just built one. And it was not the one to our lot.  The sales rep told us that they "hoped" to get the road built before the season was over and if they did, then the house would be ready sometime in late Spring.

Before season?  Lady, it just snowed!  And what if the road did not get put in before season?  Then when would the  house be delivered?  I was furious.  But more importantly, this was not a confidence builder in this developer. This brought us to the point that we simply did not trust them.  So after some reflection we decided to cancel the contract and move on.

Yep.  We are without a house.  This has been such a trying experience.  Selling a house was difficult, moving was upsetting and overwhelming.  Now we are just numb.  I feel like I am in a weird limbo.  Why is God punishing us?  I guess it could be worse.  I could really be homeless like thousands of others.  I am really just being inconvenienced.  (See that session with Thich Naht Hahn really did work!)

Random Picture - Marsha and Matt at home


Thanks Norway Store at Epcot!

October 31 - Halloween

We ignored it this year.

October 29 - SNOW!

Snow in October?  Unheard of.  But fun.

October 28 - Gravy

When Matt is traveling I make all of the foods I love that he dislikes.  Matt is a gravy hater so I cannot make it for dinner.   He was gone tonight and I make round steak with mashed potatoes and gravy.  It was yummy.  My mom used to make this dish regularly and it brought back Mom and Dad and cooking for the family.

October 26 - Diwali

Nema and PK invited us over for Diwali.  We had a fine time and ate way too much food.

Sunday, December 04, 2011

October 25 - Thich Naht Hahn


I like the writing of the Buddhist monk, Thich Naht Hahn.  I am not a Buddhist per se but I like the ideas and he is really the best at making them clear. So when Matt saw he was coming to town, he asked me if I wanted to go to see him.  Sure, why not.  I've never been to a Dharma talk, and why not have my first be with Thich Naht Hahn.  When we arrived, his followers were already on stage leading a meditation.  We all did our breathing and brought ourselves into the now.  Then he was finally brought out as the enlightened one that he is.   He is getting older and he seemed a bit frail.

He had a list of topics that he referred to as he spoke.  I can't decide which was my favorite but these examples can give you an idea of why he is such a prolific author.  He was talking about everything that we are made of--all of our emotional and mental characteristics--happiness, joy, love, but also suffering.  He noted that we should embrace our suffering as a necessary part of our lives.  For we must remember, without mud, the lotus will not grow.  So too without suffering, we will not grow.

Another topic had to do with how we are all part of the universe.  We are one with ourselves and we also carry with us pieces of every person who means something to us. Matt is part of me and I am part of him.  His illustration for this was "there is a cloud in my tea cup."  In other words, the water forms the cloud and soon falls to earth filling our rivers and streams.  That water eventually makes it to our homes and into our tea cups.  We drink the cloud and it finds its way out again.  It is an endless cycle as we have to recognize that everything is the same thing, but in different forms.

After the talk, we came away telling ourselves that we have to be better people and see the  light in every person.  We have to practice our breathing and make sure that we are in the present moment.  The funny thing was that Matt came out being better at it than me.  He told me he was practicing his breathing (which you can do anywhere).  I was so jealous.  Oh, how un-Buddhist of me.  I was not jealous.  I admired his practice.

Friday, December 02, 2011

October 23 - Freer, Sackler, the Peacock Room, and MLK






I had a procedure done on my elbow to decrease some pretty bad inflammation so exercise was verbotin.  This meant I was under doctor's orders to take it easy.  We took advantage of this order and   this beautiful day to gambol about the museums and monuments.

I had never seen the Peacock Room in the Freer Gallery of Art.  What a room!  The short story is that a rich merchant had a room constructed to showcase his collection of Chinese porcelain.  He asked James Whistler to do a little touch up painting to highlight his collection.  Leave an artist alone with a paint brush and free reign and look what you get.  A room painted in deep teal and golds, the color of peacock feathers, with  portraits of peacocks adorning the walls, and peacock feather patterns covering the ceiling.  The room is dramatic and the details are so intricate that you could spend hours examining each brush stroke.  This is one stop I highly recommend to anyone who likes to see art on walls.

We wandered around the Freer and Sackler and found a craft room.  It was set up for kids but we went right on in. We sat down with our craft scissors and glue sticks  and worked on making our own cut and paste version of the peacock room. We inspired other adults and before we knew it we had tables of adults all pretending to be ten.  The fact is that cutting and pasting and chatting is a relaxing way to spend an hour.  Why should kids get to have all the fun.  We all enjoyed it.

Seeing as it was a lovely day, sunny and breezy, we decided to visit the newly opened Martin Luther King Jr. Memorial.  That is one heck of a statue.

                   
                                                                                          View from the memorial grounds.

October 20 - Trouble in Mind

We are starting our new season at Arena Stage.  Our first play was Trouble in Mind, a play about segregation and  discrimination in the acting community in the 50's.  The protagonist was an actress tired of being stereotyped as the maid in every show.  She needed a job but resented the limitations on the roles she played because of her race.

After the show, there was a discussion with the cast. The question was whether the play was still relevant today.  I noted that there were a lot of young people there who probably did not know that this is how it was 50 years ago and there is nothing wrong with reminding us all.  One woman said she was shocked to see white people in the audience because she could not see that we would understand how they felt. She wondered why we were there.  I was really  hurt by this.  Why would we not be able to understand discrimination?  We get it.  We may not have experienced it in the same way, but that does not mean we do not understand the issue.  Also, I am a woman.  I have been dealing with stereotypes all my life.  The discussion kind of went on like this and I felt that we were all talking past one another.

I then got into a deep discussion with one man about Sidney Poitier and the image of African Americans in movies.  Whatever happened to the Poitiers of the world?  We have Denzel and Morgan.  But it is not enough to stop the Big Momma movies.  He blamed the movie studios.  I blamed everyone who buys tickets to movies that simply enforce stereotypes.  Poitier would never have put up with that.  We agreed that no matter what things needed to change.  We did not solve the problem but we had a good time.

October 16 - Roosevelt Island

It was a beautiful day but I was not feeling well, so we decided to take it easy and go for a walk on Roosevelt Island.  It is a tiny National Park in the middle of the Potomac in downtown D.C. Often described as a oasis, I had always wanted to visit but in all my years here, had never done so.  Well, we went and our reaction was, eh!

Planes flying overhead for a landing at National, traffic, and a lovely line of garbage lapping in the water along the shore, it really had not much to offer.  I suppose if you live in the city and need to see a tree, this would be a good place to go.  But for us, it was just an urban park with not much interesting to see.

It was all made better when we visited the Lebanese Taverna store in Arlington and picked up some Lebanese food and wine.

October 15 - We Need More Pictures

For anyone who has visited our home, you know that we are Victorian in our devotion to filling every nook, cranny and inch of wall space with art.  As we try to get comfortable in this apartment, we keep thinking, we need more pictures!